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COUNTRY ECHOES


| March/April 1970



BRANDON 'WISCONSIN R.R-2 ZIP-53919

Wisconsin is wintered down with a heavy blanket of snow as 1969 becomes 1970. It makes one wonder what the wind may do before this article is inked onto the page. The snow shovel is handy but the shoveler is too weary to think about what may happen.

On December 28th our youngest son took himself a wife. We lived with apprehension every day as the time for the wedding neared. One daughter and her family were driving in from Kansas City, two sons, two wives, and one baby were flying in from Philadelphia. The mother of the groom was to give the rehearsal dinner and snow lay in pillowy puffs all over the countryside.

Armed with over sixty dollars to buy food and supplies I packed my snow shovel into the back seat of the Chevrolet, pulled on my boots, and started for town. Ten houseguests, and twenty five for an evening meal where does one start? And where does one end? Finally I limped home with about six boxes and bags of groceries, at least six bags of baked goods from a thrift bakery, napkins, candles for the table, some Christmas tree bulbs etc. etc. etc. Settling my eighteen loaves of bread into a bushel basket and the ice chest on the porch, for freezing, I covered them carefully with an old tablecloth. I hoped I wouldn't have to dig them out when I needed them. But I blessed my big screened-in front porch for being the big freezer it is, in an emergency. I sank into the nearest chair. THAT was over with.

I decided right then and there that one of these days I was going to take a 'THIS IS A BE GOOD TO MAE' day. Mae was going to need it. I mused for a moment on the lady who had passed this thought on to me. Her name is Anne Hook and she is a well known Christian writer. We were sitting together talking when she told me that now and then she had to take a day and say to herself 'Now this will have to be a BE GOOD TO ANNE day.' She finds that when her energy becomes about so depleted she has to take a day to think of herself. It does make sense, doesn't it? The Bible says, 'DO unto others as you would have others do unto you.' If we can be serving others day after day as fathers and mothers, there surely must be times when they should be serving us. But in this case the only servant I saw anywhere on the horizon was Mary and she wouldn't be home until the night before the first guests arrived. She is practice teaching at Neenah. With a groan I hauled myself out of the chair. Two cribs had to be set up for two one-year-old babies. Ours, in the attic, had fallen apart no time to glue it. So our good neighbors lent us two cribs, and one high chair. Our high chair was usable.

Quickly I made another notation on the MOST URGENT TASKS pad. I had to see that Dan's clothes were ready for his Honeymoon. With all the beforehand events they were constantly being worn. EMPTY OUT A CLOSET FOR WEDDING GIFTS - CLEAN UP THE MESS FROM REDECORATING THEIR FUTURE BEDROOM - PAPER THE CLOSET. These had all loomed before me on this list and were now scratched through. The rug and the furniture were coming any day. The room had to be ready.