SOOT IN THE FLUES

By Anna Mae
Published on May 1, 1991
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My Dear Iron-Men Album Familythis is a difficult column for me
to writeI have told you different times of our hospital stays (Ed
and I) seems we have had so many these past several years and our
latest visits were in 1990. Ed had been in from Feb. 14 for 18 days
and at that time it was heart again, and pneumonia and gallstones
(which they could do nothing aboutexcept take an anti-indigestion
liquid) and so he lost one of his greatest joys of eating. Then in
October I was in toward the end of the month for five days and back
in again from Nov. 2 to Nov. 29both times for my ‘runaway
heart’ and anemia plus my other longtime ailments. I was so
happy to get home the end of October, to get Ed to a Class
Reunionwhich he dearly enjoyed, as he loved people and talking was
one of his greatest joys.

While I was gone, our five wonderful children took turns coming
to the house each night to be with him. Altogether, he had five
heart attacks and a stroke two years ago which was really a hard
illness to combat. And this year on January 11, Ed entered the
hospitalhe knew this was the last trip. We had talked about it, and
he was ready and had made his peace with Jesus. He had suffered so
much, he wanted to get along to his heavenly home and so on January
23 he died.

I know many of you can identify with my anguishit certainly is
not easy but God is so good. I was sick with asthma and bronchitis
the day I took him to the doctors and then to the hospital. And
that evening our one son, Donnie, came home and was here for quite
a few weeks. I did get down to visit Ed each day for which I was
thankful. I take great comfort in our five wonderful children that
was our greatest accomplishment in our lives and what better could
one ask for than such a blessing.

Ed loved working at funerals. He helped for about seven years
and had always wished he had been an undertaker. So, we never look
at funerals in a negative way. I think he would have liked his
funeral Donnie, Eddie, Dana and I spoke a tribute at the funeral
services. Keli played two or his favorite hymns on the piano, and
later Tommie came over to me and said, ‘Mom, that was nice how
you all did, but I just can’t get up and do something like
that,’ and I assured him that made no difference for he was
faithful the whole time helping with Dad. He stops almost every day
to see me just to tell me he loves me he’s done this for a long
time and sees the garbage gets out, cuts the grass and etc. We all
have our ways of showing our love.

I did wonder though why I had to be away in the hospital 33 days
when it wasn’t too long after I came home that Ed had to leave
and I questioned God about this and I received the greatest peace,
as he let me know he had wanted all of the children to know him
better as he was in this time of his life. It’s rough going
through this, but God is so good and we are all doing just fine,
which is the way Ed would want us to feel.

And so, dear ones, we must get on with the publishing of the
magazine as it is time for the May-June issue.

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